In an era defined by rapid technological acceleration, geopolitical instability, and a relentless 24-hour news cycle, the human psyche is under unprecedented pressure. We crave the feeling of being in control—of our calendars, our careers, and our future—yet modern reality frequently delivers the exact opposite. When headlines are dominated by crises and conflicts, and personal to-do lists expand exponentially, it is a logical, albeit dangerous, reaction to succumb to a sense of helplessness. Many find themselves trapped in a cognitive loop: "I am overwhelmed, and nothing I do can change the course of these events."
According to Professor Eva Asselmann, a leading expert in personality psychology at the HMU Health and Medical University in Potsdam, this mindset is the primary enemy of mental well-being. Speaking on the SPIEGEL podcast "Smarter leben," Asselmann warns that this resignation functions like a downward spiral. "When you feel like a passenger in your own life, you lose the drive to act," she explains. "Conversely, if you cultivate the belief that you are capable of influencing your environment, you unlock the energy needed to tackle the challenges ahead."
The Core Concept: Defining Self-Efficacy
At the heart of Asselmann’s research is the concept of "self-efficacy"—a term coined by psychologist Albert Bandura in the 1970s. It is not merely a synonym for self-confidence, which relates to a general belief in one’s worth; rather, self-efficacy is task-specific and situational. It is the deep-seated conviction that when difficulties or complex problems manifest in one’s life, one possesses the tools, the resilience, and the resourcefulness to find a way through them.
The Psychology of "I Can"
Asselmann emphasizes that self-efficacy is not a static trait. It is a psychological muscle that can be strengthened through intentional practice. The conviction that "I will find a way" acts as a buffer against anxiety. When an individual possesses high self-efficacy, a setback is perceived as a hurdle to be navigated rather than a wall that signifies the end of the road.
Chronology of Disenchantment: Why We Feel Powerless
To understand the current crisis of agency, one must examine the progression of modern stressors.
- The Pre-Digital Stability (Pre-2000s): While not without challenges, the pace of information consumption was slower. Individuals had a clearer sense of the boundaries of their "sphere of influence."
- The Hyper-Connected Era (2000s–2015): The rise of social media and constant connectivity began to dissolve the boundaries between local concerns and global tragedies. Individuals were suddenly tasked with processing global trauma in real-time, often without the psychological infrastructure to cope.
- The Crisis Accumulation (2020–Present): The COVID-19 pandemic, followed by international conflicts and economic instability, created a "polycrisis" environment. This environment has significantly eroded the average person’s perception of control, leading to widespread psychological fatigue and the "nothing I do matters" narrative.
Supporting Data: The Impact on Human Performance
Psychological studies conducted over the last decade consistently show a direct correlation between perceived self-efficacy and objective life outcomes.
1. The Resilience Factor
Research indicates that individuals with high self-efficacy exhibit lower levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) when faced with professional challenges. They are more likely to pursue long-term goals despite initial failures, whereas those with low self-efficacy tend to disengage as soon as the level of difficulty increases.

2. Physical Health Correlations
There is significant evidence that self-efficacy influences physical health. Those who believe in their ability to impact their health outcomes are more likely to adhere to exercise regimens, maintain better nutrition, and seek medical help earlier. In essence, the belief that one can improve their health is often a prerequisite for the behavior that actually improves it.
3. The "Small Wins" Theory
Asselmann points to the power of incremental progress. Data shows that even minor successes—completing a small, daunting task, learning a new skill, or successfully managing a difficult conversation—trigger dopamine releases that encourage further action. This creates an "upward spiral," the inverse of the helplessness trap.
Official Perspectives: The Role of Environment and Mentorship
Professor Asselmann highlights that self-efficacy is not developed in a vacuum. It is socially constructed and sustained by three primary pillars:
The Pillar of Positive Experience
Success breeds success. When we achieve a goal, our brain registers the capacity to overcome obstacles. Asselmann notes that even if a major goal is not met, the process of navigating the path provides "mastery experiences" that build resilience for the next attempt.
The Pillar of Social Support
The role of the environment cannot be overstated. "Wohlwollendes Feedback" (well-meaning, constructive feedback) and support from one’s network serve as external validation that bolsters internal belief. When we are surrounded by people who model resilience rather than cynicism, we are more likely to adopt those same behaviors.
The Pillar of Emotional Regulation
Understanding how to interpret one’s own physiological responses is key. Anxiety often mimics excitement in the body (increased heart rate, shallow breathing). Those with high self-efficacy learn to reframe these sensations as signals that they are "gearing up" for a challenge, rather than signs that they are failing.
Implications for Society and the Individual
The implications of this research extend far beyond individual therapy sessions. If self-efficacy is a prerequisite for a functioning society, then the current epidemic of "learned helplessness" poses a systemic risk.

Societal Cohesion
A society where citizens feel powerless is a society susceptible to polarization and apathy. When people feel they cannot change their circumstances, they often retreat into tribalism or fall victim to populist rhetoric that promises simple (but often ineffective) solutions. Conversely, communities where individuals feel empowered to make change—whether through local activism, volunteerism, or professional excellence—tend to be more resilient and cohesive.
Breaking the Cycle: A Practical Guide
How, then, do we move forward? Asselmann’s recommendations are pragmatic:
- Start Small: Do not aim to solve the global climate crisis today. Aim to complete the one task you have been putting off for a week.
- Seek Mentors: Identify people who embody the kind of agency you wish to develop. Observe how they handle stress and how they reframe failures.
- Audit Your News Intake: If the 24-hour news cycle is triggering a sense of paralysis, curate your information flow. Focus on long-form journalism that provides context, rather than headlines that prioritize outrage and fear.
- Reframing Emotions: When you feel overwhelmed, label the emotion. Ask yourself: "Is this helplessness, or is this a signal that I need to break this problem into smaller, more manageable parts?"
Conclusion: The Path Forward
The feeling of being overwhelmed is a rational response to an irrational world. However, remaining in that state is a choice that drains our potential and diminishes our quality of life. By focusing on the architecture of our own agency—by seeking out small wins, fostering supportive relationships, and consciously managing our reaction to global stressors—we can begin to shift the internal narrative.
As Eva Asselmann concludes, "It is about reclaiming your autonomy. You cannot control the world, but you can control how you engage with it." In an uncertain future, that realization is not just a psychological comfort; it is the most powerful tool we have for survival and growth.
For those looking to deepen their understanding of these dynamics, the podcast "Smarter leben," hosted by Lenne Kaffka, continues to explore these and other vital themes in personal development. New episodes are released every Saturday, offering listeners a roadmap to navigate the complexities of modern existence with intention and clarity.
















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